Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Advent Candle Ceremony

Prophecy Candle

Read:     Isaiah 40:1-5

The first candle we light is called the Prophecy Candle. To prophesy means to tell about something that is going to happen in the future. Long before Jesus was born, God promised he would send a Savior. We will hear how Jesus' coming was promised long ago.


 

Angel Candle

Read:    Luke 1:26-35

The second candle we light is called the Angel Candle. The angel Gabriel visited Mary to announce that she would give birth to Jesus just as the prophets foretold. There were also angels who appeared to the shepherds telling them where to find the child who would save the world from their sins.

The Angel Candle reminds us that Jesus' birth was not like any other.

Bethlehem Candle

Read:    Micah 5:2, 4-5a

The third candle we light is the Bethlehem candle. It reminds us that Jesus was born to be the Savior of all people. Long before Jesus was born God promised Abraham that the Savior was to come for all people because all people need to have their sins taken away by him.

When Jesus was born God sent special messengers to tell the people that the Savior had come to earth. These special messengers were the angels who appeared to the shepherds.

The Bethlehem candle not only represents the birthplace of Jesus, but the announcement of his birth to all people.


 

Shepherd Candle

Read:     Luke 2:8-20

The fourth candle we light is the Shepherd candle. It tells us that Jesus has come into our hearts and into our lives. We light the Shepherd candle to remind us that our faith should be like the shepherds' faith. We should love the Lord more than anything else and believe him always.


 

Our faith does not stop in our hearts. It must proceed to our lips. We must tell others about our faith in Jesus. We are saved because we believe Jesus was born to save us from our sins. We will want to tell others that he was born and died to save them too. This is faith in our lives.


 

Christ Candle

The time of waiting is over; our Lord is born. Now we light the Christ candle to remind us that all of God's gifts - Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love - are to be found in God's greatest gift, His Son, Jesus Christ.

Prayer

Almighty God, we thank You for the gift of Your Son, born of the Holy Spirit and of Mary.
Upon Him rests all Your grace, through Him comes all Your mercy.
As the light shines from these candles, so may the light of Jesus shine within our hearts.
Help us to make Your church the light of the world.
We ask in the name of the One born in Bethlehem.
Amen

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Pumpkins



Emilee and I used the afternoon to take Grant to pick out our pumpkins for the Fall. There were plenty to choose from at the Methodist church in Boger City. (Ironically, we live in the Pumpkin Center, NC area and there is not a pumpkin patch to be found. What's up with that??) At any rate, this first picture was when we first arrived. Grant started making selections right away.




There was an older couple that handled the sales. They were there last year, too. A very sweet couple. The lady volunteered to take a family picture for us. I really thought I was smiling more than that! Emilee is her usual glowing self. Grant is distracted by cars going by. It's too bad Sadie wasn't with us.



 All those small pumpkins made a great background for this one. Kudos to Emilee for timing this one just right. It is so hard to get Grant to look at the camera long enough to take the shot.










We picked out four pumpkins about this size and one little one that Grant selected himself. They'll look great outside the front of our house this fall. We won't carve any this year. Hopefully that will help them last through Thanksgiving. Grant's not in to that a lot anyway.

Monday, October 5, 2009

The Melting Pot: Emilee's Birthday Date

For Emilee's 30th birthday, I took her to The Melting Pot in Charlotte.  We visited the one on King's Road on Sunday afternoon.  We were both excited about it, since neither of us had been there.  The word on the street was that it was great eating, but a little on the expensive side of the culinary scale. 

They post their menu online, which helped us get an idea of what we were up against.  We elected to try the full four-course meal, "Fondue Fusion."  It included one lobster tail, which neither of us had tried but wanted to.  The price lived up to expectations.  It was more than I had ever put down for a single meal.  But it was my wife's birthday, so I figured she had earned it after putting up with me for five years.

The Cheddar Cheese Fondue appetizer was good.  I liked it better than Emilee.  It contained sharp cheddar cheese and beer, neither of which was something that Emilee consumed before that.  It's a good time to say that Em and I are both "tea totallers."  We don't drink any alcoholic beverages, so you might say it was curious that every course contained some sort of flavoring of the boozing variety.  The alcohol burns away, but the flavor that is left doesn't always justify its use.  The appetizer may have been one of those occasions.  Our server displayed his knowledge of menu and cautiously disclosed that the beer used in the cheese fondue was Busch.  Since I'm not a beer drinker, I could only react as I have received knowledge from those around me.  I hear Busch is not the beer of choice for brewery afficionados.  At any rate, there was a sharp tang to the cheese that was part cheddar and part draught.  Emilee was not helped by the breads that we dipped: rye and pumpernickel.  Both of those were on the pungent side.  We also had apples and veggies that blended well. 

The second course was a small salad.  Emilee chose the House salad with Peppercorn Ranch while I had the Spinach and Mushroom salad with warm burgundy dressing.  We were both pleased.  The burgundy dressing was very flavorful and complemented the spinach greens perfectly.  The ranch dressing was a big hit with Emilee, too.  The size of the salad was reasonable, too.  We had just eaten enough cheese to start feeling full, so we needed a little breather before the main course.

The entree was a smorgasbord of flavors which included filet mignon, marinated NY strip, chicken breast, shrimp, lobster, ravioli, bratwurst, veggies plus seven sauces, garlic butter lemon.  These were brought to us raw along with instructions on how to cook them in the coq au vin pot at our table.  I thought most of the sauces were excellent.  The cream cheese based dip was ok.  Em liked it on the vegetables.  It was a little too plain for me.  I thought the most interesting sauce was the yogurt curry sauce.  It was a mild curry that probably went best with the veggies.  It was not my favorite, though.  There was a ginger plum sauce, a worcestershire sauce, and a honey mustard sauce that were all excellent.  The honey mustard was more spicy than sweet, but it was dyn-o-mite on the bratwurst.  There was a gorgonzola dip for the steak and a shrimp cocktail sauce made of chili's rather than tomatoes that were also very good.  By this point in the meal we were both stuffed, but there was no way we were walking away before trying the real showstopper.

The chocolate dessert fondue was amazing.  There is no other way to describe it.  We requested the Flaming Turtle, because it seemed a little more interesting on paper containing pecans and caramel and because I like fire.  It had the rum-incited flames that were just plain fun for me to watch, but I'm not sure how much flavor that it actually added.  In this sweet fondue, we dipped strawberries, marshmellows, brownies, cheesecake, and pound cake.  The strawberries were the coup-de-gras.  We requested seconds of those. 

I burned my tongue once, which is probably why they tell you not eat directly from the skewer.  Duh.  Other than that, the only thing I wish I could do over was the appetizer.  It would be really neat to have a sampler that would allow us to try multiple cheeses to see which ones we like.  We didn't ask for this, so I don't know that they wouldn't accommodate.  At any rate, we both feel we got our money's worth and left stuffed full.

Overall, I would say it was a glorious experience, which seems to be the point of the whole fondue thing.  The food was great, but it is probably intended to be more of an experiential thing.  You know.  It's just one of those things everyone should do at least once.  Those little home fondue pots you get a Wal-Mart just don't do fondue justice, especially when you get a taste of what it can be.  We would like to go back, but the heavy price tag will keep us away for at least a while, maybe until Em's 40th birthday.  However, Emilee and I agreed that to go for just a dessert would definitely be a possibility.  Happy 30th, babe!

Monday, August 31, 2009

A Blight to Be Remembered


    Clouds overcast the sky when I returned home from work on Friday evening. The air was tepid and full of humidity. It would begin raining soon. You could say that it was the end of another dull and boring week of work. The only interesting thing that had happened was that I had to miss the previous day's work, because my son was sick with a cold. This night was going to be different. The gears of Providence had clicked into place and set into motion a short series of events that would bring to a close a two-year chapter of our lives. It all happened in a span of about twenty minutes. But before I share the story's ending, I think I should share how the drama unfolded from the beginning. What follows may seem drawn out, but it's not the entire story. I want to show adequately how important this was to my family of four. I also want to show how important is to me especially as it relates to my faith in God. I am a Christian. I have been for the majority of my life, but lately I have struggled to find "powerful and effective" prayer of the righteous that the apostle James proclaims in the Bible. I have never been blessed with eloquence in my prayer life, at least not that I'm aware of. Sometimes, however, it just seems even less so. But as you will see, God does listen. And another passage in the Bible is proven true by these events: "God works all things together for the good of those who love him."
    My wife and I moved to our current home from Shelby, a city about forty-five minutes away. We wanted something that was closer to Emilee's employer. The move would also leave me with a slightly shorter commute. We lived in a similar community to our current one in Lincolnton. That a dog or some animal would raid our trash cans during the night was not new to us. More than once I found myself cleaning up rancid papers, eggshells, and other partially decomposed waste after an invasion by whatever happened to live in the nearby woods. Cleaning up these messes was no fun in Shelby and it is no fun here either.
    Over the years I've learned to tell the difference in the way various animals will infiltrate, search and sort the contents of a trash can. Raccoons, for instance, are fairly neat. They may turn over a can and remove the lid, but the mess stays fairly well centered to the location of the can. Cats are even more surgical in their strikes. There sometimes isn't hardly any cleanup at all. There will be a simple hole that was picked out from an exposed bag. This is assuming that a bag is available, which probably means the cans are too full. In those cases I guess you could say that I had it coming.
    A dog, however, is much different. Big dogs are especially different. The contents of the can may be strewn all over the yard and even in the neighbors' yards. It just depends on what kind of mood the dog was in when he hits the cans. Dog strikes, consequently, are the most frustrating to clean up.
    The strikes began in late spring or early summer a couple years ago. It seemed to be sporadic at first, but in very short order it became a daily event. Each morning, rain or shine, I had up to fifteen or twenty minutes of extra "routine" that involved cleaning up trash. It didn't take long to figure out that we had a canine visitor. Our cans were knocked over, opened up, and spilled in a way that was characteristic of a big dog. There were more and more chew marks appearing on our plastic trash cans each morning. The dog had figured out that our trash contained a pretty reliable food supply. Other people in our neighborhood seemed to have fewer problems, because of the way they disposed of their garbage. Some kept it in their garage. Others had similar means that prevented easy access to their trash cans. We had the standard plastic thirty-three gallon cans with latching lids outside our house—an easy target for a dog bigger than fifty pounds.
    I played an endless chess match with the invader. I closed the cans tightly and then used bungee cords to hold the lids on. This was only moderately effective. Sometimes I found an entire can halfway across the yard. The lid would be off, but the bungee was still attached to the now lidless can. The smelly contents of the can were, of course, spread out in a swath between the can's original position and its final resting place some twenty yards away. Learning from this I would then use the same bungees to not only strap the lids to their respective cans, but I would also strap the cans together. The bungees didn't always hold together as well as I would like and they were also stretched so tightly that they would warp the plastic. This prevented the lids from closing as securely, which meant slightly exposed bags. The dog used this to his own advantage. There was no need to waste energy pulling on the cans themselves. He just needed to get to the bag, which he could easily tear open to enjoy any leftover gravy, moldy cheese or other gourmet treats. Eventually, I started taking my chances with leaving the smelly cans in the garage. Since it was cooler weather when I tried this, I got away with it. The problem seemed solved until spring.
    One of the most frustrating parts of this whole ordeal was that I had not yet even seen my adversary. A man likes to know his opponent. I had seen a black dog wandering around the neighborhood, but I had no proof that it was this particular dog. I could never catch him in the act. I became sort of paranoid about it. There were nights when the slightest sound would interrupt my sleep and I would run to the window at the back of the house to see what was there. Sometimes there would be a can overturned. Sometimes there would be nothing. Sometimes I saw a shadowy four-legged specter racing through the yard. Each time seemed to raise my ire more. "I'll get you!" My level of frustration rose steadily as I fought in vain to catch him in the act.
    I also tried to eliminate the threat altogether. Friends provided plenty of advice. "Electrocute the sucker," they said. "Just attach a live wire to the cans and he'll not be botherin' you no mo." My cans are plastic, so that was doomed to failure in the planning stages. Another thought was to shoot him. I don't own a gun and my wife won't let me buy one. Bummer. My own personal variation of this idea was to get a bow and arrow. Silent and assumedly less likely to have collateral damage from stray bullets and kids playing around with it when dad's not looking, my wife would still not approve the purchase. She was not as irate about it as me and so I had to continue plotting. The old antifreeze-poisoning strategy was among the most frequently offered suggestions. Looking back, I can see how this particular tactic reeked of redneck ingenuity. I eventually tried it a couple times, but it didn't work. The dog was much too clever and resilient to be taken down by such feebleness. The first time I tried this approach I poured some antifreeze into a tray in hope that the "natural sweetness" of the nectar would be enough to lure him to a gastronomic death. The dog hit the trash and avoided the poison altogether. Next, I tried mixing it into some livermush (it's similar to scrapple or liver pudding to all you Northerners). No dog can resist the savory aroma of fried livermush. This one couldn't either. I placed the bait in a small plastic bowl and placed the bowl inside the trash can. I reasoned that this would do two things: 1) it would make the dog think he was actually getting into something I didn't want him to have and 2) if he did have an owner, I could always say, "He dug it out of the trash." Brilliant. The next morning I found the trash can overturned, the bowl empty. It was licked clean. However, there was no dog carcass to reward my ingenuity. If the dog I targeted actually did take the bait (and I assume he did), he proved to me that he is impervious to antifreeze. Perhaps he had built up a tolerance to antifreeze in his trash can terrorism training. Alas, I was foiled.
    All of this and I still had not stared down my adversary. That changed unexpectedly one night when I heard some scratchy noises through the kitchen window. It was warm weather again, so the cans were placed back outside. It was only about 10:00, so I was still awake. I walked through the house not quite as carefully as I would if I had known the culprit was right outside the back door. Aha! I mouthed silently. There he was. I watched as a black pit bull tugged at the can. He was about 30 inches tall at the shoulder. His head appeared thick and robust in the shadows as he patiently worked on unwrapping his meal. I watched him for a few moments in unbelief. This was only entertaining for a little while for I realized that I was about to have another mess to clean up. I flipped the switch to the outside flood light and he disappeared around the corner of the house. I savored my small victory and plotted some more as I drifted to sleep.
    By this time the stakes had been raised on our ordeal. This was not simply a trash can terrorist. He was officially a killer and a menace. My wife and I spoke with many of the neighbors about our frustrations as we looked for more information about the dog and his activities elsewhere. Surely we weren't the only ones. Indeed we weren't. We discovered that this pit bull had killed four cats. One of them was slaughtered right in front of its owner on their front door step. He also killed a pet rabbit by digging it out of its hutch before mauling it to death. The worst of all his attacks was against a teenage girl from the other side of the neighborhood. She was out walking one day when the dog approached her in broad daylight and bit her leg. The attack was malicious and unprovoked. The wound broke the skin, but she kept her wits about her and didn't panic. Fortunately, the attack ended there. There were other acts of aggression, not the least of which was when he moved toward my own daughter as she was exiting the school bus one afternoon. She was too frightened by his barking and growling to exit the bus until my wife could pick her up. This dog needed to be eliminated—immediately.
    As the stakes grew, so did the dog's prominence in the neighborhood collective psyche. We all felt that it was just a matter of time before he seriously hurt someone. I didn't share with any of the neighbors, but I had privately decided that the dog needed to be named. I chose Blight. It was a fitting description of what he was to our previously quiet community. Black Bart was suggested by a co-worker, but that seemed to too cartoonish and friendly or like something from more innocent times.
    Our county's animal control division of the sheriff's department had been trying to capture Blight for nearly two years now. He had avoided capture as he ran from officers on ATV's and on foot as they crisscrossed our yards over and over again to no avail. He was shot twice with light caliber weapons, but would not fall. He even—this is amazing to me—walked inside a cage trap, ate the food that was placed there and then exited without engaging the trap's door. I know the traps worked against other dogs. I saw it catch one of Blight's buddies. That was the last I saw of that one. I presume he met his fate in the county gas chamber. Blight was bad news not only because was he determined to impose his will on the community, but also because he was very high on the dog intelligence scale. I'd call him a genius. He seemed to understand that if a human looked at him for too long or pointed anything in his direction, it was time to run. It was hard to even get his picture, because as soon as my hands rose with a camera he vanished. He recognized animal control vehicles from a distance. If one rose over the hill leading to our house, he was gone. He even seemed to recognize the young girl's father as he approached in his pickup truck. Blight apparently understood familial retribution. Honestly, I don't think I would be fully surprised if I stumbled on his evening hangout to find him reading a magazine. It was totally baffling.
    I prayed about this situation often. I was afraid of the consequences of doing nothing. I was more afraid of my own inability to capture this dog. No one else had any better results from their best efforts. What was I going to do? I have a son that is eighteen months old. Outside play is becoming a must for him. He loves being outdoors, but there was a serious threat to his safety lurking outside our home even while under the close protection of my wife and me. I am aware of what happens to small children when dogs turn bad. My son is not the only child in our neighborhood. What if something were happen to any of the others? This couldn't be allowed to happen. I pleaded with God to "deliver this dog into my hand." I wanted him dead for the purpose of protecting of my son. I know that's a stained-glass-sounding kind of prayer, but that's what I prayed.
    That brings me back to the fateful day. We keep our dog tied to a running line on our property. We only have two sides of the back yard enclosed by a fence, which leaves the rest of the yard open. Coda escaped from his running line that morning. This was not the first time this happened. As usual he found Blight in the neighbor's yard and the two started running together. I knew it was pointless to try to run him down that morning. Once he gets away, he can be very hard to wrangle (I don't blame him for that). I left for work knowing that I may have a chore that night. When I returned home from work that evening, it seemed like a normal Friday night. I wasn't worried about Coda, but I still knew I needed to find him before he got into trouble. Emilee then noticed the two "pals" walking across a couple of the neighbors' yards. "Scott, there's Coda running with that dog!" I walked outside through the garage, grabbing Coda's bright orange leash. I walked down the driveway as I saw the pair about two houses down the street on the opposite side of the road. Would this be a chase? I had also thought clearly enough to grab a couple cookies, which I hoped to use as a lure. When I got to the end of the driveway, I decided a more passive approach. I knelt down and called him. "Here boy." Coda stopped and looked. I broke a cookie and threw part of it in his direction. Coda walked a few steps toward me. I threw another cookie. He came halfway and then the rest of the way. Surely it wasn't that easy. I snapped on his leash and walked him back to the house. When we returned to the garage, I decided to reward his obedience with a thorough brushing. He likes that. Once I had him chained up again, I went inside the house.
    Maybe five minutes passed when Emilee called through the house again, "That dog's outside. Call that guy." "That guy" was the aforementioned bite victim's father. He was as determined to rid the neighborhood of Blight as I was. Unlike me, however, he owns a gun. I watched Blight in the back yard for a moment. The sky was getting more ominous as the wind picked up. I knew the dog was afraid of storms. I had watched him tremble inside Coda's dog house on more than one occasion as the thunder rolled overhead. He trotted across the lawn and lay down under some small trees near Coda's house while Coda occupied the shelter. This approach hadn't worked in times past. As soon as Blight sensed something wasn't right, he ran away for safer surroundings. This time he got relaxed. I called a cell phone number that we kept on the refrigerator. My soon-to-be new friend answered. "Are you still interested in that dog?" I asked. He was. As it happened, he was just entering the neighborhood on his way home from work and he had his gun, a .40 caliber hand gun, in his truck. He said, "I'll be right over." I advised him not to pull up the driveway so as not to spook the dog. He stayed in the grassy area in the center of our cul de sac. The quickly-baked plan was working so far. Blight was still relaxing in the leaves. We crept quietly around to the back of the house, staying out of sight. "Where is he?" he asked. I pointed him to a triple-trunked tree that provided cover from being spotted. He could get a clear shot between the trunks.
    The wind was blowing harder now as heavy drops occasionally fell to the ground around us. Blight continued to rest in the leaves. He hadn't yet noticed the sniper creeping through some bushes in his direction. The aim was taken as I grew nervous with excitement and some fear. This was something with which I was not familiar. I had never been hunting. I had never watched an animal get shot. Now I was watching a surreal drama unfold in my own back yard! The first shot pierced the sound of leaves rustling in the breeze above us. "I got him! He's toast!" The man with the gun was a good shot. I suspected he had had some training. Blight jarred before rolling backward a little. He tried to recompose, but had trouble righting himself. At this point, death was imminent. Victory was near. Hollow tipped bullets will hit their target and then shatter. When this happens inside a body, the resulting shrapnel will rip through flesh and bone alike, leaving the victim in great internal disrepair. Now it was time to be as humane as possible.
    I knelt again and called Coda, who was still in his dog house looking a bit confused. He came immediately, allowing me to grab his collar and hold him away from his fallen comrade. A second and a third shot rang out. Blight continued his death roll, but was still living. He displayed the sort of iron-willed determination that made him notorious in life. He simply did not want to die. He refused. The fourth and final shot was a head shot. It was over.
    Rain began to pour down on us as we dragged the carcass to the wooded lot on the opposite side of the fence. I tried to call the county's leading animal control officer with a request to dispose of the carcass. He had given permission months earlier to kill the dog, since he and his department were as impotent as everyone else up to that point to rid us of this nuisance. My neighbor and I shook hands and he went on his way.
    Emilee and I were both a little giddy and maybe a little more shaken up. We were not experienced witnesses to death. But we were grateful to God for answering our prayer. I believe God worked out that series of events. I thanked him that evening over our meal with Emilee's sister and her husband. It was no small thing to protect our son from this threat.
    Animal Control Services arrived the next morning to pick up the prized carcass of such a formidable adversary. Blight's physical condition was typical of a dog that had been a stray for so long. Though his ribs were all visible, his musculature was still imposing. Bullet wounds were barely visible as flesh had closed around the small openings. There was around his neck a dark-colored collar with no tag. This collar clung to Blight's neck as a monument to the failure of an irresponsible pet owner. Had Blight been dropped off near our neighborhood by someone that just didn't want him anymore? Had he escaped a cruel master? Was the former owner nearby? I had noticed the collar before. Many times I had imagined meeting this individual and letting him know in impolite terms the extent of his failure. At this point, it no longer mattered. This threat was eliminated.
A great lesson to be learned from this saga is that pet ownership requires commitment and responsibility. I cannot claim to be a perfect owner, nor can I be viewed as a model for others. However, I will say that I take responsibility for my pets. Coda caused me great embarrassment on one of his adventures. I had to retrieve him in the middle of the night from a neighbor's house after he called me to let me know about Coda's own raid on some trash cans. I offered to right the situation by cleaning up the mess. Fortunately, it cost me nothing more than an apology and a chilly walk home with a wet, smelly dog. These things always seem to happen in the rain.
    My inability to capture a single stray dog was humbling. Even though it worked out that I was involved in the final drama, I still felt so powerless for so long to make it happen when I wanted or how I wanted. I know the Lord's hand was in that. He protected my family from harm. He has reminded me that he hears and answers my prayers. He has demonstrated that he can be found in the strangest things. I don't know how the neighbors will tell this story, but I think I will remember Blight as God's anointed instrument to challenge and preserve my faith. May God be praised for his love endures forever!

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Lessons Learned from Running the 5K

I have been running for almost two years now. A friend at work pulled me with him out on the road and I have been panting for breath somewhat regularly ever since. Sometimes while I run, I think about things the Bible says regarding running. Paul regularly refers to running or other athletic events as an illustration for how Christians should live their lives for Christ. I would like to spend a few paragraphs pointing out some things I have learned that reinforce this illustration.

Training
In 1 Corinthians 9:24-27, Paul points out that there is only one winner in a race and many are trying to claim that prize. Therefore, a lot of effort is being put into the race. "Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training," he says. The runners I know don't just wake up and say, "I think I'll show up for a race and go for it." Rather, they start getting ready weeks and even months ahead of time. I have only run 5k events so far, but it still takes effort to get ready for it. After all, I don't want to go out there and look like a total whimp. I spend time getting ready. My fastest time was in my first race. Leading up to it, I ran about 3 times per week, probably logging 10 to 12 miles per week. I finished third in my age division for that first race and got a medal for it. After that I started dreaming of how I was going to qualify for the Boston Marathon and start winning smaller races around the area. However, the reality of limited time eventually came crashing down on me. I didn't run as frequently and my times came down. That first time has become a wall that I have had trouble breaking through.

The lesson I have learned here is obvious: you get out of racing what you put into training. This is especially true for those who train for marathons and triathlons. Those individuals run, swim and bike many, many miles leading up to an event. They watch their diet. They purchase fancy gizmos to monitor heartrate and read literature that tells them how to train and eat the best. In my spiritual life, I have seen the same. My zeal for Christ is highest and my faith is strongest when I put more time into cultivating a deeper relationship with him. Paul calls this "strict training." It's not always easy to live for God. Many times I want to sleep rather than read my Bible or pray. Accountability to other believers is not necessarily a cake walk, either. I don't like someone telling me that I am wrong. But these are things that are for my benefit when it's my turn to be tested. Christlikeness comes from time spent with Christ regularly.

A Different Pace
Another thing I have noticed about running is that there is what you call a "race pace" and then there is a "training pace." Training pace is not supposed to be the hardest you can run, because you are trying to build up endurance and stamina to prepare for the time when you go all out. I won't pretend to understand all the ins and outs of this, but a great example is found in low-heart-rate training. The strategy is to achieve a certain heart rate based on your personal skill-level and age. For example, my target heart rate may be 140 beats per minute. I need to reach that target heart rate and then keep it there, even if it means slowing down to a snail's pace to do it. As the theory goes, you will gradually build up more stamina and endurance to use when you run a race. Somehow this works better than just running as hard as you can all the time, which would be counterproductive.

When you compete in a race, the pace is different. You should leave it all on the road. When you run, you should not be able to carry on a coversation, because of your level of exertion. When you finish, you should be fully spent, no gas left in the tank. I made this mistake in my last race. At the end of the race, I was able to produce an all out sprint without really straining. I could have run another mile without too many problems. I think I would have been better served to use that energy earlier in the course to maintain a higher overall pace.

I say all that to say this: I need to press ahead as hard as I can in my effort to serve the Lord. That means I am taking advantage of every opportunity to cultivate a relationship with Jesus. It means that sometimes I need to lose some sleep in exchange for reading my Bible. It means that sometimes I need to give up a meal in order to spend time in prayer. It means that there are some friends that aren't good for me, so they should be discarded. It means that I need to make sure I am in church regularly hearing the Word of God being preached and taught. And it also means that I need to share my faith with others. I am to live at a "race pace" for Christ for he has already given all for me.

DL>DNF>DNS
Someone shared this formula with me before my first race: DL>DNF>DNS. It stands as an encouragement for those just starting out. It translates like this: Dead Last is greater than Did Not Finish is greater than Did Not Start. It basically means that even if I am the last person to finish a race, I at least had the guts to get out there and try. And it means that if I achieve my first and most important goal in running a race, to FINISH, then I have done something to be proud of. I have seen people finish a 5k over half an hour behind the leaders, but still get a much deserved pat on the back. There are spectators hanging around until the very end to cheer on even the ones that limp across the finish line. Many of the ones that finish early will hang around the finish line to clap for their vanquished comrads to press on, because it's just a little further. It's really cool to see it. The point is that even though Paul said that you need to run a race like you are trying to be the winner, he didn't say you must finish in first place in order to win in Christ. You just have to be in Christ. I struggle with this, because I like to win. It's easy for me to get down on myself, because I don't get a medal in a race or I don't get noticed in church as much as I might think I deserve. But Jesus loves me, not because of how often I'm the one with the right answer in Sunday School, or how eloquently I can (or cannot) pray, but because I belong to him.

Running in a Crowd
One more thing. I run faster when there are others around me running, too. In a race, the crowd pulls me along. After all, no one wants to get left behind. If I run with people who are just a little faster, I can match their pace and thus finish better. The obvious parallel here is that all believers need other believers. You need to go to church regularly! And don't try that "I don't believe in organized religion" garbage on me. That's a very clever trick, but a trick nevertheless. I just got done confessing to my wife that I have been feeling cynical toward the church lately. It's mostly due to things I disagree with and because, well, people are people. Sometimes they...I mean, we get it wrong. But I believe that church is exactly where I am supposed to be, so I will attend and get involved regardless of imperfections. They will make me stronger through their successes, and in spite of their failures. Hopefully, I will do the same for them. "As iron sharpens iron...."

To conclude, God has given me many valuable lessons from running. I think the most valuable lesson is that I'm not there yet. I still have a lot to learn about living in Christ. Running is not simply putting on some shoes and going for a jog one day. It's about training and setting goals and then trying to reach those goals. So it is with Christlikeness. To me, running the race is about being in Christ and being like him more and more. Even though I don't "run the race" to make God like me, I still run hard, because I want to reach my final goal: to be like him when I meet him. That's what I think Paul was saying in 2 Timothy 4:7. "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." May his glory consistently be reflected in me.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Thanks to George W. Bush

I am writing this on the last night of President Bush's presidency. It seems that most of my peers as well as the media are glad to see him go after eight years in office. Tonight, I have found a couple of articles by individuals that are surprisingly kind to the President. That's refreshing for me, since I happen to respect the man.

Eight years ago, George W. Bush promised in his inauguration speech to "restore the honor and dignity to the office to which he was elected". I believe he has done that. You can call him a lot of things and be right about a few of them, but in my humble opinion, the man did a good job.
Less than a year after making that statement at his first inauguration, his presidency and his life - along with ours - were changed forever. September 11, 2001 radically altered the way he looked at his own time in office. Bush took the position that any further threats to the country must be taken seriously. I sincerely believe that is why our soldiers were sent to Iraq. Bush didn't want to take any chances that another madman in the Middle East would be able to strike our homeland. I don't buy the idea that Bush had some big evil scheme up his sleeve to dupe Congress into killing the man that tried to assassinate his father. Maybe it sounds good, especially if you are a Democrat still aching from two electoral defeats at Bush's hand. But it seems difficult to believe that he could have pulled off such a feat by convincing Congress to go in the first place. He wasn't the only one that believed Iraq had WMD's. There were plenty of senators and representatives that thought the same thing.

I don't agree with every decision he made. I'm not a blind follower. I think the "No Child Left Behind Act" was a bad move. I don't like the fact that Bush allowed any federal funding for stem cell research that involves the destruction of human embryos. I also would like to have seen better preparation for handling Iraq after we removed Saddam. But when all is said and done, his legacy will be a positive one. Iraq is now succeeding and has appearances that it will continue to succeed. We need a democracy in the Middle East as a foundation for future efforts to bring greater stability to that part of the world.

I guess the reason I'm writing this is to on record as being grateful to George W. Bush for the past eight years. I appreciate his work and his efforts to keep America safe from those who want to destroy us and our way of life. Mr. Bush, thank you and God bless you in all your future endeavors.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Flag Football and the Manly Way

Today I played flag football with some guys from church. It was a lot of fun, but as I reflect on the afternoon, I see it now for what it really was: an opportunity for manliness. This was an especially important epiphane, since I have long embraced my own geekiness. Not that geeks aren't or can't be manly, it just usually doesn't happen in flag football (anything with "football" in it can be challenging tests of manliness for those who openly acknowledge their own geekiness). But I digress.

First, this was a pretty good bunch of guys. They were apparently more athletic than me, at least for flag football. Since at least two of them were former high school or college athletes, the manly factor was automatically higher. In spite of stereotype manly men, these guys were good Christian sportsmen, which adds to the manly atmosphere exponentially.

Second, there were only six of us, but we were all giving it the required 110%. Anything less just wouldn't meet the manly protocol.

Third, it was cool seeing a couple of the guys interact with their sons, who tagged along. I don't know these guys that well, but they seemed like good dads. Being a good dad is definitely manly.
Finally, we were not without casualties in the field of battle. That's another requirement for any manly activity. For my part, I shed blood. Yeah, blood! I scraped my knee at some point in the afternoon. I guess I shed a whole two drops of the precious red. Heh heh. Nobody can say I don't have what it takes, because I kept right on playing. Yes sir. Another guy injured his back and one of the kids took a ball to the schnoz. Way to go, guys!

All in all, it was definitely a manly experience. I will no doubt try it again. The more frequently I expose myself to manly men doing manly things, the more manly I will become. My wife digs manliness, so I have the extra motivation. But for right now, I think I need some Tylenol.